My sorority was quite small when I first joined (12 total counting my pledge class), and even with such a small group, there were two distinct subgroups. Not "we can't get along" subgroups, but people tended to hang out more with people in their own subgroup than with people in the other.
We almost doubled in size following fall rush during my junior year. A handful of the new girls had absolutely no respect for us older sisters. They formed their own little clique, and the leader of said clique is a large part of the reason why I didn't have anything to do with my chapter for a while. They wouldn't spend time with other sisters unless it was a sorority function, and they were outright rude to some of us (including me) ... except around election time, oddly enough...
Aside from these few girls, though, I never had a problem spending a few minutes with a sister, grabbing coffee or whatever.
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