Kind of what justamom has said. Its a bit difficult to totally plan seduction, which is what you need to do, because you can't force her to follow your script. But you can try to plan a little.
So some tips. I don't know how intrinsically flirty you are, but you need to up your flirtiness with her and probably in general.
You need to pay more attention to her in a flirty way. Often times flirtiness is what determines the difference between someone being considered a love interest and a friend. Seriousness kills.
You also have to turn that off and on. Flirtiness adds intensity to any relationship. So you want to be flirty, attentive and present, and then walk away for times. You don't want to overwhelm in the beginning.Plus it creates a desire for your prescence because you are friend.
I am sure I don't have to tell you about the different types of touching that go along with flirting tophysically attune you to each other . . . I don't want to give away too many secrets.
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Originally posted by justamom
I think you need to set up a situation.
There are times when friends go out as a group and not everyone is equally "into it". As the evening drags on, the group can splinter and go different directions.
If you are observant, you may be able to notice an evening she isn't into and offer an escape. Like-hey, have you been here or have you heard this group...try to get her somewhere that has a really different atmosphere and yet allows you to talk. If she goes, the door has opened. If she brings everyone along...well,
you have a little longer to wait.
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