[FuzzieAlum]

If that's something the fraternity thinks is bad - rescuing his girlfriend who has been physically assulted - good god, they're not worth they letters they wear. The only problem, and it's so minor, is that the girls got back there a different way - but that's their fault for choosing not to. (What, was he supposed to stuff them into the car and force them back?) I can see why he would be turned off of Greek life after that.

However, I should think he could only fairly object to you rushing if you planned to join that fraternity, which of course you won't! Explain to him that because one group is bad doesn't mean they all are. And you could tell him, because I assume it would be true, that if you have a bad experience with the group you join, you would reconsider your membership.