[Moxie]

Do you mean why exactly he got kicked out? If you want to know that, you can PM me. Other than that, I can just say that it involved me directly, so I feel directly responsible although he says he doesn't blame me. I guess I can clarify some more since I won't be using any names if that's what you want.

He was at an exchange/mixer.
I was not, I was out separately with some friends.
A stranger physically assaulted me, attempted some creepy things. This all being during an era when we have a serial killer loose in our town.
I called him crying, because I was scared and upset and alone.
He was drunk, I told him not to come over.
Nonetheless, he asked 2 of the girls at the mixer to leave early and drive HIS car to MY house. He was responsible for getting them back to campus, but they came to my house, which is off campus. I offered them a ride back to campus, but the 2 girls called a friend who came and picked them up from my house. So, I suppose it looked bad on his fraternity because he was responsible for them...but they agreed to bring him willingly.
Either way, I feel that if I had not called him none of this would have happened.

Because I feel responsible for him being kicked out of HIS respective GLO, should I feel obligated not to join one of my own? Is this why he doesn't want me to join one? I guess it's just personal, something I'll have to figure out for myself...I just wasn't sure if anyone might have other advice/experiences.