AlwaysDivine, what you are asking is not unreasonable, but it seems as though the information you are seeking can be obtained if you attend a rush. I think you should take Soror DG's advise and try to establish a relationship with the sorors in that chapter because they hold the votes, not the advisor. Also, the advisor is not there for interested young ladies to access; she is there for my sorors. Don't think that by contacting the advisor that you will get what you are seeking. Just because she is not visable or easily accessible those interested does not mean she is not in contact with the undergrad sorors.
Besides being an AKA, graduate advisors have lives, too! If she does not show up at events then maybe an assistant graduate advisor is there or a representative from the graduate chapter who you are not familiar with is there. This happened at times during my undergrad days. As for how to handle the sorors who "scornfully watch" people who
speak to her, you have to make that call. You now know that if you approach her you run the risk of being seen and watched unless they change their attitudes. Or, you may approach her but don't allow the conversation to appear deep or intense.
I hope this helps. Also, I and other sorors have made our e-mail addresses available. You are free to send us your questions.
