The only reason that I can see so many people taking offense is because she is not in an org.
How many times have greeks said the exact same thing that she is saying and no one was offended or presented their frustrations. I always heard other greeks say if you didn't go XYZ then you went the wrong way. If you are pleased with you affiliation or desired affiliation then feel that her comment was unnessary and move on. Plenty of times a Zeta or Delta or SGRho has said "girl, you were misinformed" (when I became an AKA), maybe some were joking maybe others meant it. How often do we have neos in all orgs who say the same thing, (if you aren't a --- then you did not know the real thing).
She has been told, I think she knows it was sort of in bad taste, plese let the woman be! We have all said it at one time or another, as a neo, as a joke to a friend in another org. or whatever.
I hope that is ok.
[This message has been edited by lluvmook98 (edited October 07, 2000).]
[This message has been edited by lluvmook98 (edited October 07, 2000).]
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