Chrini
If your INTENTION is to be faced with negativity in your quest, then that is what you will receive. Honestly, if you focus on the sorority's history wholistically, focus on the positive aspects of the chapter that you are interested in as well as your grades, you won't have anytime to concern yourself with drama, in fact you will be able to nip any potential drama in the bud. If you find yourself confronted, ask yourself, do I want to be involved with this. If understand the magnitude of the organization, your answer will be simple. I know sisterfriends it is very difficult to see, but trust me, I have been there. I AM STILL THERE
. But I recognized that a chapter is not an indication of the entire organization. Take some time and really look at the history of the founders. Put it all in perspective and then make your move. I don't mean to sound redundant but I get the sense that so many sisterfriends feel that they are caught between a rock and a hard place and you actually aren't. If you still feel unsure you can always e-mail me and we can chat further.
With much love
