Interesting discussion....
To me, a homo
sexual lifestyle is just as sinful as an unmarried hetero
sexual lifestyle, or a murderous lifestyle (serial killers) so therefore it should be treated as such. There is no such thing as a little sin or big sin, or my favorite, because it is popular or cool now, its no longer a sin.
The church SHOULD be a place open to anyone (sinners, saints, and all ) who wants to come and learn what it is be a member of Christ's family (which would include giving up things of the flesh that are sinful in act and nature). I would think that the church should be encouraging those that don't know Christ, to come and learn about Him and what is required of you as a born again Christian, which includes giving up sinful things that you may have once found pleasure in.
So IMHO, they should not have kicked out the church that baptized gay men. People who have pre-marital sex get baptized every Sunday so I don't understand that the uproar is all about.