Hey y'all!
Not to sound negative, but we need to remember that being Greek is not seen as an honor to everyone. Clearly, being Greek means the world to most people on this board. I personally love my sorority and would do anything in my power to benefit it. To my family, however, although they know that my sorority is very important to me, they cannot understand why I would want to be a member of a "secret organization". They do not understand the bonds, and they do not understand the history. Since none of them attended college, they cannot fathom what it means to me and my sisters. They believe that a "real" family and close friends are all that are needed in life. I respect them for that because they have never been in the situation to join an organization such as ours.
In addition, many of my friends who are in college now think that Greek organizations are a waste of time. It's not because they're jealous or rushed and couldn't get in, it's just because there are other things that are much more important to them. They don't need ABC sorority in their lives, while I do. They have their organizations and their clubs that are important to their standards and their beliefs.
It's a shame that some people cannot see the benefit that our organizations serve. But we need to remember that they are clubs. They are important clubs that help the community, but they are still clubs. It is not necessary to join one to live a happy, successful life (although I sometimes think it is!
)This might not be the case for Oprah, but it is for many people. I would be honored if someone such as Oprah was to join my organization. She has done so much for so many people. By not joining a sorority, it shows that she wants to continue devoting her time to her own issues.
Just my $18.85!