well i admitt i was ignorant of sorority protocol all together, so when i attended the rush i was under dressed compared to most of the ladies to say the least *i wanted to die*, and i wore slacks *no she didn't*, which at my chapter at least was a no no. but of course i wouldn't have showed up in jeans or anything, some folks did however

anyway as sorors we know that some people do not know everything so we are compassionate, *some of us* it is easy enough to say hey that is not appropriate attire, so that they will know for the next time. cause some people really don't know, but it doesn't mean if they are humble and willing to learn that they can't be great members