Shalom I am glad you are meeting with the pastor. Please for give me folks but I really thought on the intial reading that the person was referring to a racoon. I guess I was wrong to think that we have progressed
. Please be sure to express how you feel without holding back. Sometimes people feel that they can't hold their clergy accountable for their actions or question them when there seems to be a misunderstanding of sorts.
I am sorry that you had to experience this but take it as a wake up call that we as a people still have a long way to go :-(. Much love.