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Recently I was involved with a guy who did something similar ... when I asked him what was up, because he was acting distant, he said absolutely nothing, he was fine, I was fine, he liked me. Then I never heard from him again. (And I know he's alive and well and not trapped under a heavy object.)
Lesson: If the guy doesn't have the balls to be up front with you, confronting him won't do a lick of good. He'll just weasel out of it.
I think your feelings are perfectly reasonable. You were cool with the hooking up, not with the subsequent noncommunicative act. Wanting to hear from him isn't the same as wanting a ring, wanting a boyfriend, or even wanting more sex. It's wanting an acknowledgment that you two had fun at the least.
But if you're going to talk to him, it'll be to relieve your feelings - don't expect any satisfaction out of him.
If worse comes to worse, get a package of Pillsbury cookie dough and a six-pack of wine coolers and watch trashy movies. Well, it works for me, anyway.
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