Im really sorry to hear that you are unhappy with sdt. But the only thing i can say is that the organization is only as strong as the members make it. If youre not happy the way things are, BE THE CHANGE you want to see! (yeah i think ghandi said that). My chapter has a lot of problems, but they are totally outweighed by the sisterhood we create. Yet, i understand that if you dont feel valued, then its time to go. Im sorry to hear im losing a sister