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Originally posted by Ideal08
I know that this student is self-conscious about her size because we have talked about it before. That is why this is such a touchy topic. I know that some days she feels ugly. I know that some days she doesn't want to eat. This is SO much about size. Some things simply should not be worn if they don't compliment your figure.
I'm not sure about her financial situation. I don't think that she can afford too much, y'know what I'm sayin'? I have thought about going shopping with her, though. I think that's a really good idea, I just can't foot the bill. We'll see.
Thanks for all of your ideas, though. Please, keep them coming! 
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As a person who is on the full figured side, I know what it's like to feel that way and to basically starve myself to think I look better. There is no point to it. I was once in her shoes where I would take people telling me about what I look like personally, but it is all about how you approach someone on it. My sister and I had a simple conversation years ago and she snuck(ms?) in the topic and told me about some changes that I should make for myself. At first I got on the defensive side, but I realized this is someone I trust and love and at least she was HONEST. That is what you have to be...Honest. It may hurt, but it will help her. Just be as gentle as you can. Good Luck!!
One more thing, why is your boss putting that responsibility on you? I feel that your boss, as the higher authority, should discuss that with her.