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Originally posted by stardusttwin
Just had a thought- bring up how Mo'nique dresses...I don't like her comedy all the time but she can dress her behind off and is always stylish in clothes that fit her. She has a book coming out and I thought I heard before she was styling clothes but not sure if they are on the market yet.
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Boy...this goes to show you that beauty is DEFINITELY in the eye of the beholder!
I think that Mo'nique usually looks like a hot arse mess!!!
Anyway, I am also a BBW, and honestly Ideal08...I think you should just be straight with her. Don't try to sugarcoat it because she may not get your drift. I know when I was in high school and I first started to put on weight, I appreciated my mother saying "Sweetie, that just doesn't compliment you anymore, why don't you try..." I would much rather someone come to me like that than to beat around the bush, but that could just be my personality.
I think that as long as you are sincere with what you are saying and you follow it up with suggestions instead of just saying, "You know you too big for that!"
that she will receive what you are saying.
Does she have money to start a new wardrobe? Has she gained a bit of weight recently? I guess these would factor in as well, if she has recently put on weight and her clothes are too tight and she can't afford new ones, I don't know that I would want to approach the situation at all!