I just want you guys to lift up my friend in prayer. She is in a "relationship" with a "man" that is absolutely destroying her. She was pregnant and he treated her like crap! He didn't buy the baby not one thing...she was struggling financially and he didn't even offer to buy her any maternity clothes...she walked around for the whole 9 months in size 0 (literally) clothes. He is big-time in "pharmaceutical sales"
, and walking around in $900 Prada shoes and such, and up until the baby's birth (yesterday) he'd bought the baby NOTHING! It hurt my SOUL to hear her complain, knowing full well that the next time he came around she would let him in. I don't understand how someone with so much book sense could be so stupid!! He came out of his mouth saying that "I know I won't love the baby the same if it's a girl because I want a boy!" so she was afraid to get an ultrasound to find out the sex of the baby, and she convinced herself that it was a boy...long story short, she had a baby girl yesterday.
NOT only that, the baby was born with a serious birth defect (won't say which...) that seriously alters her appearance. My friend already seems like she is slipping into depression. She said she doesn't want us to come to the hospital because the baby is "unattractive". Her "man" wasn't there for the birth (surprise) and when she told him of the birth defect, he waited ALLLL day to come to the hospital, and then told her that he wouldn't be able to bring her and the baby home because he has to go 'out of town on business'. (Nucca acts like he works on Wall St or something
). Anyway...I just wanted my GC Fam to join me in praying for my friend, I am really scared for her and the baby, especially the baby, because I feel like this baby is already coming into the world without her fair share of love
. I want to help her, but she is shutting us out already. This whold situation is bringing me to tears because I love my friend, and I just wish there was something I could say that could make her snap out of it!