HC I'm sorry for your family's loss, Yasava?
HC taking time for yourself is not selfish, its called a necessity?
HC everyone, especially us women, need to make sure to do that every once in a while?
HC ex bf drama?
He's been talking to my best friend and what not?
He called me last night and "apologized" for not listening to me during the breakup?
He said he realized that I had some valid points and that he was wrong for not listening to me? *insert annoyed Black woman look here*
I thanked him for leaving me!!!!

(He was like

, then

)
B/c if he hadn't, I would still be unhappy, but not know why.
Now I have:
a great boyfriend, who loves me, flaws and all
a new church home (!!!)
a new sense of self
a new look at life
HC I picked the boyfriend up from school today (he's in grad school), and he had a bunch of lilies for me? wow