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sorority belle,
The best thing you can do for yourself and for all your female relatives is to make the most out of where you are now. Don't beat yourself up everyday wishing you were in XYZ - be proud and happy you are in ABC!
If you are unhappy with ABC and showing it, naturally your mom, grandma & aunt will keep being po'ed with XYZ. But if it becomes apparent over time that you have found your home - even if the letters are different - it will lessen the blow for all of them, and you. Believe me, it hurts them to be mad at something they have loved for so long - but until they're assured of your happiness, they probably will be.
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It is all 33girl's fault. ~DrPhil
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