I would be hurt, angry, maybe a little confused but if I truly loved and cared for this man, I would forgive him. Clearly he used bad judgement, and yes, he disregarded my feelings when he did what he did...but it is not worth ending an otherwise good relationship over. If I did leave him because he cheated, I would have to really question just how much I loved him in the first place...if I could discard him so quickly just how deeply did I love him? He may have messed up and jeopardized the relationship, but me ending it is permanent. We all make mistakes, I would just have to pray that he actually learned from his...because repetitive cheating I do not tolerate.
[This message has been edited by Sexy Mocha (edited August 22, 2000).]
[This message has been edited by Sexy Mocha (edited August 22, 2000).]
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