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Old 04-22-2003, 08:02 PM
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Originally posted by lauradav
Exlurker, most campuses have a rule in the Panhellenic Recruitment Rules that all chapters must include everyone who attends preference (or even invited to pref on some campuses) on their bid list. If the campus doesn't have that rule I would assume that the chapter could get permission from their org to not put the PNM on their list, but if the campus does have that rule I would assume they would have to get permission from their org and talk to the Greek Advisor about the best way to proceed under the Panhellenic rules.
To my knowledge, this was not a Panhellenic rule at my campus - in fact, I know of one poor woman (Jane Doe) who went to several Prefs without getting a bid before she was finally recruited for a new colony. As a chapter, we felt that an invitation to Pref meant that we would issue a bid to each woman, with the clause "unless she turned into a Lizzie Borden overnight". We were also quite disgusted as a chapter at the GLOs who preffed the woman I mentioned in the first paragraph but didn't offer her a bid. I can still remember driving by the one house after Pref, and seeing Jane Doe all excited, and then hearing the next day that the house where we had seen Jane only took 3 (out of 11) pledges. It just seemed demeaning.

Sorority Belle, I can understand your disappointment, yet since you have accepted the invitation to another GLO, I hope you give them a chance. Hell, I hope you do so well there that your kinfolk wonder why they weren't members of *your* GLO!!

Good luck to you -
honeychile
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