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Originally posted by carnation
When that daughter you've shown your pin to, introduced your sisters to, sung sorority lullabies to...is rejected by your very own sorority, it has to feel like a knife thrust to the heart.
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I agree with Carnation; having your children hurt is 1,000,000 times worse than you, yourself, being hurt.
My younger sister went to Cornell, which doesn't have an active DZ chapter. It wasn't until after she'd graduated that she finally told me that she'd been *relieved* that there was no DZ chapter there because she would have felt a lot of pressure to go there since I had been "Miss DZ Cheerleader" when I was in college. (she exaggerated!)
As for me, I'm just happy she found a home she loved just as I'll be happy for my daughters no matter where they end up!