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anothermom--

Your story breaks my heart, but I'm so glad she ended up with a sorority that she is happy with.

imsohappy, I in no way was attacking the Kappa legacy policy. We're all different organizations, and thus, have different policies. I like that we notify mothers/grandmothers if their legacy is going to get cut and make active members provide the HQs with a valid reason. Also, we are fully trusting in our active members choosing their new members, but most sororities are required to give a legacy at least a second look. To say our policy says that we aren't is ludicrous.

I think that unless you've had to be the mother that hears her daughter will be cut or the person who has had to call that mother, this is a difficult situation to sympathize with.