IVySpice. ITs not so much the rule but the application. There are a lot of "nod nod wink wink" situations where everyone knows a romance is going on but since its officially against the rules no brings it up.
Usually it only comes up officially when there is a problem, or a member(s) is disliked or someone wants revenge.
ITs the diffeential application I object to . .. and the fact that it really is just foolish to tell people who they can and cannot be romantically involved with.
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Originally posted by IvySpice
I don't believe that a policy forbidding romantic entanglements between members is discriminatory. Many coeducational groups have those policies -- and those that don't often wish they did (anyone who's been in a co-ed musical group knows what I'm talking about!) Wouldn't you want the same policy if your group were co-ed? If so, then the fact that your group happens to be single-sex doesn't make the policy discriminatory. It's just good group management.
Ivy
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