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right on!
Sherbertlemons, you are right on. This is exactly why it is Kappa's policy to keep the outcome of any PNM's Recruitment process private.
When I was a collegiate, my chapter released a PNM who was a 5-time Kappa legacy--Grandmother, Mother, 2 Aunts, and a Sister--one of whom was a past National President, and 2 of whom had been both Regional and Province officers. Long story short, it didn't work out for this girl, and my chapter released her in the round before Preference Night.
We did not call her family. We did, however, call our Province and Regional officers to let them know what had happened, as we were certain there would be backlash.
Then we waited.
The young woman, who probably had a *very* hard phone call to make on the day of Bid Day, called her family and told them that she was proud to be a new member of Delta Gamma. Her family (though still a little sore), congratulated her and sent her a big bunch of cream roses.
Now they give as much money to DG as they give to KKG.
This family handled it right, and I continue to be impressed by them years later.
That's not to say that we still didn't hear about it from HQ....but in the end it all worked out.
Something to keep in mind, ladies.....for when we have daughters ourselves!
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