Hello ladies of AKA my name is Tinese of SGRHO. I was looking through various chat rooms when I came upon this topic and I had to respond to the question. I firmly believe in spanking a child when they need it. There are children with different types of personalities where all you have to do is talk to or raise your voice a little and they cry and then there are children who are strong willed and challenging that just talking by itself or placing them on time out will not work. They need to be spanked on their behind in order for them to straighten out. For example, my son is very strong willed. In school he only listen to displinarian type of teachers as opposed to teachers or any adult that won't take his mess. He walks all over adults who are not firm who are soft in the manner of dealing with him. For a child who is strong willed as my son you can do all the talking in the world take away his toys or his priveleges but it won't work unless his behind is torn up from time to time. By the way I use a variety of methods to discipline my son in conjunction with spanking and it works!!
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