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Originally posted by Shine
I have a question for you then.
Since I hit the gym 6 days a week, do yoga and pilates, am also a vegetarian that doesn't eat fried food or refined sugar, doesn't drink soda or alchohol, and am still overweight anyway...
Am I allowed to cry about it?
And who are you to say whether or not someone can be upset about something whether it was a choice in their control or not?
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A person can be upset about whatever they want to be upset about. But that doesn't mean that they have the right to bitch at me for commenting that I personally eat healthy, and that's what brought on that thought. I say good for you for doing all that you're doing. My issue is when people want to bitch TO ME about it, or AT ME because I am healthy. That's just uncalled for.
And one thing I don't quite understand. Obviously you are very upset about things said, whether intentionally malicious or not, on the other thread (and understandably so). I definitely don't blame you for being upset about those things, because I even said myself that some of things people are saying on there are getting way out of hand. So what I don't get is why you would then come on this thread and make yourself even more upset.
I don't think anyone is trying to offend anyone, at least I know I'm not. But if these are things that you are going to find offensive, why read them? Because honestly what I think or what anyone else thinks
really doesn't matter. The only thing that matters is how you feel about yourself, so don't let me or anyone else get you down!