DeltaAlum Stop! you are giving away secrets . . .! WE might act badly, but its kind of nice if a girl will make herself easy and available for very little effort on our parts isn't it? LOL
But yeah, essentially DeltaAlum is entirely correct. If we were really into you we wouldn't be giving you the problems you are posting about. Bottom line.
Indifference from a guy means he doesn't like you much.
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Originally posted by DeltAlum
I'm sorry about how conceited this may sound, but I just don't know how else to say it.
I had a couple of huge, hopeless crushes in junior high school that went on for a couple of years, but by the time I got to my junior year in high school, I was ready to play -- and had a great time the rest of high school and college. Lots of girls. Lots of dates. Lots of fun. It sort of made up for those heart-wrenching unrequited "(puppy) loves."
Unfortunately, and not by choice, I left some very unhappy young ladies behind. At least four of them, whom I had dated casually or just a couple of times in high school, came to Ohio University, at least partially, because I was there.
While I tried very hard to be nice and considerate and friendly, I just wasn't interested in dating them -- let alone any kind of long (or short) term relationship. I wasn't trying to dump on anyone -- I had just moved on. We just didn't click anymore.
It was also about that time that I met the woman I later married. She put a pretty healthy dent in my dating -- but didn't stop it completely for a couple of years.
The point to this, if there is one, might be that not all college guys are out to dump on women -- sometimes it appears that way because we have (had) our own interests -- and the two sets of interests don't always intersect.
That doesn't make things any easier -- but as the old cliche goes, "It takes two to tango." Or Tangle.
If one of the two isn't interested, it's nearly hopeless. Not always. But usually. And often, time to move on.
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