Well I don't date guys for the very reason that you girl complain about lol
Which makes my life much easier.
But I will say this. Figure out what good relationship skills are, in terms of consistent actions. Something both defineable and quantifiable. Then develop those consciously. Otherwise you will always be at the mercy of someone else to make you happy or to make your relationship happy.
There are a lot of good people in the world that have bad relationships because they and/or their partner lack good relationship skills (which are different things than what you think you learned in high school). And the worse part is that many people wallow their entire lives in lameness because they don't know the difference.