ya'll I cannot get enough of this board...everytime I am having a 'situation', no matter how, off the wall, I can come on the board and ya'll will be talking about it.
[b]Situation:[b/] I have a regular customer who comes in, he is like 65 or so, and his nephew is always flirting with me (and he is too, for that matter, always saying if I were 40yrs younger...). He, the nephew has offered to take me to some of his fraternity sponsored summer events, and etc, etc. Now, I always said no, b/c it seemed like everytime he asked me out, there were a lot of my co-workers around, and I just didn't want everybody in my business.
A few weeks ago, I was talking to the uncle, he caught me, when I was leaving after my shift...and we stood outside talking for like 20 minutes. He was just asking me about my major and my future plans, and asking me why I am not married or dating. I casually mentioned that his nephew had asked me out, and although he kept the playful tone, he basically said, well, I am not gonna say nothing about that one, but if you are looking for a real man, you need to keep looking. Now, like I said, he still had a joking tone, and everytime his nephew is flirting with me, he, the uncle, always tells me that I need an "older man".
Now the other day....bear with me, I know this is a long story....the nephew caught me while I was outside, coming back from lunch. He was talking to me, and telling me how pretty he thought I was and just saying that he wanted to take me out fot a belated birthday outing. Now, I think that maybe I have read too many E. Lynn Harris novels also, but something about the way he said..."Alright, 'girlfriend', I will defintely call you.."...screamed GAYYYYYYYYYY!!!
Now, maybe it was just my imagination working overtime, but I kept thinking about Basil, Kelvin, and the rest of them, and I also kept thinking about his uncle saying that I should keep looking if I wanted a real man...
AM I OVER-REACTING????
Maybe his uncle was just joking, or maybe he was saying, don't mess with him, I know something you don't....
HELP!!!!!!
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