[HotDamnImAPhiMu]

Okay. Two thoughts:

1) Does it not seem to anyone else like Southern Belle has it out for whichever sorority the story is about? Their girls stink, the mother isn't loyal, the current collegiate members cut the legacy out of sheer meanness, etc., etc., etc.

2) NO ONE CONSIDERED THE FACT THAT THE LEGACY MAY NOT WANT TO BE THERE. And aside from that -- who knows what the collegiate chapter knows the the mother, grandmother, etc., don't? We had a girl come through who had drug problems -- what were we supposed to do? Call her mom and be like, "Hey, your daughter's cool, but the whole coke thing isn't really gonna work for us....." You get the picture.

Anyway, we ALL know how awfully agonizing selections can be. In my sorority I know we CAREFULLY go over each potential member, considering all aspects of her personality, potential as a sister, academic record, etc. I'm confidant that this sorority -- esp. if they're one of the "Big 4", and I'm assuming Panhelenic -- works the same way.