ok....for the most part, guys suck. i'm sorry, but they do. there's a very small portion of them who just kick ass and are nice and funny and sweet and everything we want/need them to be. and don't get me wrong, i know chicks suck, too....but this is girl bitching time.
we've all liked our share of a-holes, we've all dated and been
in loooove with our share of d*ck heads....but here's something i have learned the hard way: ultimately, it is up to
you to determine how you are going to be treated.....lady pi phi, girl, you're letting him be an ass. save yourself and just let it go. i know easier said than done, but if you
let him do it.....you can't really be mad at him. this is a harsh reality that i had to come to terms with...and it ain't easy b/c it is sooo much easier to blame the other person for being crappy...BUT they may not be that way if ppl didn't
let them. does that make sense? so...drop him like the bad habit he is. doesn't seem like you're missing out on too much when he bails on dates.....
and PM_Mama00.....is there anything substantial to this italian stallion other than his looks? don't settle for a pretty boy when a big beautiful "average joe" may be your prince charming.
ok, the "dear diva" section is done for today.....hope you don't mind the advice intrusion, but it's just that i've been there crushin on a cutie when a much better guy was waiting on the sidelines--and i lost out.
i have also dated
several mean, hateful, but later kiss-ass guys who would make me mad and sad, etc....but at the end of the day, i had control of the situation. i could have gotten out, but i didn't. so who's more to blame for the girl's misery: the guy that is a dick, or the girl that has the power to stop it and doesn't? and even if there is no one right now....go out and have fun with your sisters!!!!!!!! "boys come and go, but...."
-sigh- 361 reasons why kitso isn't one of those d*ckheads
