What I meant by my comment was that we "look" at some of the most trivial things when deciding if we should or if we should not. Who knows, that person that has the fragrant lotions could be our soul mate. We DO NOT know who God has for us. So we should be more concerned about other things...
Now, a man who wears vaseline intensive care lotion COULD very well be that GAY man. They don't always have to "possess" certain tendancies or mannerisms. We need to open our eyes and be more careful. FRANKLY, WE (as women) DO NOT KNOW WHO IS GAY AND WHO IS NOT.
But let us not miss out on something which could be WONDERFUL! Just because our "gut" tells us. That "gut feeling" could just be "GAS".
[This message has been edited by AKA2D '91 (edited August 10, 2000).]