[AsianMoon]

I have an interesting question for ya'll. Say your man or women felt guilty and decided to come clean with a confession. Would it hurt you more if:
a)They said that they had slept w/ someone else but it was a one time thing and the person didn't mean anything to them. It was just sex, no feelings attached.
or
b)They hadn't cheated physically but they thought that they were in love with someone else?
Of course no one would want either to happen but what do you think would hurt you more? The physical act or the mental act? Hmmmmm.