My one and only legacy experience goes like how you all are saying--if she was invited to Pref, she automatically is on the first bid list. If you don't want her to be your sister, don't invite her to Pref. Simple as that.
WE DO NOT INVITE WOMEN TO PREF THAT WE DO NOT PLAN ON GIVING A BID TO. Our legacy didn't want to be in a house at all, a we sent a nice letter to her grandmother.
This year, we had a triple-threat legacy...to the other sorority. She came to us!
