I generally "get my way". Being high maintainence is the amount of crushing or manipultions of others.
High maintainence is not Win/Win, its usually means that the other person has to lose/sacrifice something.
ITs an attitude that leads to behaviors.
Same with emotional needs. It depends on how much you burden other people, or inflict yourself on other people.
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Originally posted by jennybloch
I understand what I'm hearing...it's funny how guys and gals have different views on what the term means. I can see where someone could be emotionally high maintenanced or just that way in general...I know I personally am more emotionally inclined to needing more than in general life...like, I own only running shoes, no high heels, I wear a baseball cap to class because it's just CLASS! And I never send food back because it wasn't prepared the right way. But I do like to get my way...but who doesn't? 
Keep it coming!
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