during college, i've only seriously dated two guys, but gone out with plenty....some are fraternity men, some are not. it just depends on the character of the person, really.....not that i chose the
best character, but hey. my first b/f at college was given the ol' black ball from sig ep.....yes, i dated such a respectable human being to be
BLACK BALLED.
dated a few other random fraternity guys/non-greeks here and there...all fun, no drama.....and the last guy i seriously dated was a highly respected member of what? sig ep! so...interesting turn for me.
as far as dating a greek vs a non-greek....i don't think it matters as long as the other person realizes that my sorority is
very important to me, and he can't expect me to choose him over my girls everytime. i take a lot of pride in my chapter and i love everything that alpha gam stands for.......and i need for whoever i'm with to understand that and respect that. if he's involved in his fraternity, he prob won't have any issues with that.....if he's not, then i'm sure there's something else he's involved with that he takes just as seriously as i take my letters (hopefully, anyway). i've done the dating-the-boy-who-talks-down-about-my-sorority-thing.....and i will
never, ever, ever do it again. you don't respect my sisters, you don't respect me. period.
james...you don't? and i had the perfect man just ready for you!!!!
