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Yea, not me. No guys in Clarion and no guys in Pittsburgh like me. I think I wear anti boy spray or something...
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Then they're STUPID, and you need to more elsewhere man! I'm telling you, a friend of mine is this modelicious guy(he has been a model for awhile), he's muscular, good dresser, talented etc, and his girlfriend is what some might place in the "large category", but she looks good and she knows it. Girl takes care of herself, knows and is comfortable in her own body, and knows how to play up her advantages with outfits!
Basically attractiveness often has to do more with proportion. If you have JLo's butt, and a full stomach, but also large breasts, you're going to look good dammit! There are other things that come into attractiveness, including carriage, self perception, and all those other fabulous things that people already mentioned. And it's so hard to believe this although we all know it's logically true, but how you feel inside and who you are really doe show through in your appearance. You all know those people who you may not think of as good looking in "pose", i.e. a photograph, but in "animation", or life, they are just beautiful, and you don't know how you ever thought they weren't. So blah, basically...
You should lose weight only IF:
You feel out of breath or in pain when climbing stairs or walking for short distances
You have high cholesterol, high risk of diabetes
You are eating unhealthy foods
You are not very active in your life
Being overweight in these cases is still not the actual problem, but can be a symptom of the above things, which are much more serious problems. Otherwise, you should still be leading a healthy life, but don't allow a bad self image to prevail!!!