[Kevin]

I hear ya man. And what everyone's saying is about right. It's not that no one cares, it's that the problems are very complex and sometimes we don't see a clearcut solution -- in fact, it would be accurate to say (in my opinion) that no advice is better than bad advice.

I have to tell you, some of your problems have been pretty tough ones to think about. Nothing seems to go your way but what doesn't kill you should make you stronger. Hope this is a satisfactory answer!