[delph998]

I have more...

1) I will not date a guy if he does NOT have a license or if he's doesn't own a car. I know this is going to affect some of the brothas out there, but let me argue my case. Now when I say if he does not own a car, I mean if he's straight up COOL not having any means of transportation. I don't live in a busy city like New York where it's the norm for people to not have cars. In Minnesota, owning a car is a true necessity. I dated this guy once that didn't own a car. At first, I was really hesitant to date this dude...well I was totally convicted that he was triflin' when he told me that the only reason why he won't get a car is because he hates to drive. But everytime I looked around, he would want me to pick him up and take him to point A, B, C, D, etc. To me, that's a sign that the brotha is sorry tail brotha trying to get over.

2) I will not date a guy that says that he won't dicipline his children. See, in my day, I got the beat down by BOTH parents. I don't want my husband to be soft and have an issue with me whipping my kids. He needs to be just as gangsta, if not more gangsta, than me!


3) He has to be a man! If he's a push over, I know that I will take total advantage of him. I want my man to put me in check...have the final say (in some things)...BE A MAN!