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Originally posted by Me By Nature:
Hello all. I had a conversation last night and I wanted your opinions on the subject- Can you have a serious meaningful relationship without sex being involved? Men, I would really like to hear from you since the man whom I spoke to thinks that it can't be done. Would you marry someone if you have not had sex with them?
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I don't believe it's possible today. I think we all measure SOMETHING in a potential mate: looks, physique, personality, etc., and we continue measuring until it's time to measure the physical-and that measurement should be undertaken with the same openess, honesty, and enthusiasm as everything else. Why try to stop when we get to "the FUN PART"?
On marriage: What happens if you get married as a virgin. You don't know what you're doing, so you read or get tapes on it. You realize you're not pleasing your husband. One day he's with the fellas and hears one of them say: "Man, my wife is the shit! She did this and that to me last nite and I went crazy! He knows you object to that; and would never try it, yet he wants it BAD. Then he meets a girl that says she's an expert at it. You know he's going to be tempted to try her. Now honestly; what do you think he'll do?
It's one thing to be bad at it because you don't know; and another to be bad at it because you WONT TRY! You can loose your mate that way.
Today, most everybody expects it. Reality will tell you to find somebody that makes you feel your absolute best, solve problems with you, and has a genuine concern for you, then lock 'em up! There is no perfect person; so try and find "the lesser of all evils".