ZChi,
This topic didn't bother me at all. I actually think it's pretty interesting. I just know how it is when a friend is going through a bad situation with a man, and because you love your friend and your loyalty is to her and not the man, it is easy to feel she is acting stupid and deserves better. I can look at some of my friends and shake my head in disapproval when I know I probably went through a similar situation in which she was shaking her head at me. I've just learned not to be judgmental and to allow them to learn on their own through these situations. I will always be there as a friend and hope that she doesn't keep dealing with the nonsense.
Also, I know that with God on my side, I can get through anything. Believe me, if it weren't for my fatih, my family, friends and sorors, a sista would be out there bad. I'm actually quite fine. For some reason, I just felt the need to vent a little.
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