Man, does this topic remind me too much of my friend. Do any of ya'll have a friend that no matter what, she just always seems to choose the wrong guys? My friend attracts Mr. Wrong like a light attracts mosquitoes! And no matter how much I tell her about this, she does not wanna listen! I've known her for 3 and 1/2 years and ever since then she always seems to go out w/ guys that just dog her.
For instance, her last man totally took advantage of her. This guy was so terrible! The ultimate thing he did (besides standing her up numerous times, not returning her phone calls, yelling/arguing at/with her for no reason when he was having a bad day) was he stood my friend up for New Year's and do you know what his excuse was? He lied to her and told her that his mother died!!! My friend told me this and I was shocked like "Oh no! That's awful..poor guy, etc" right? Later after they broke up, she called his house for some reason and guess who picks up? Yep, his VERY alive mother! I tell ya, what is the deal people! Then even later on, my friend found out that this dude was cheating on her which I just knew all along. That was the reason he stood her up for New Year's.
But this wasn't the first time she's been w/ a guy that cheated on her, so it's like she just attracts these type of guys. I don't get it. She's also one of those people who "falls in love" really quickly. She'll be dating a guy for like 2 months and say to me "oh so and so told me he loved me and I love him too". Maybe it's possible to love someone but the way she acts, it seems like she's IN love. All her relationships are like that. As soon as the guy tells her he loves her (which seems to always occur after 2-3 months), she's like head over heels. Then, BAM, the dude starts treating her like crap! Boy, I just don't understand it! Sorry to go on so long!
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