I'm still holding the card...and I'm also glad to see that I'm not alone. I know a lot of people who feel "too old to be in the Club" and just kind of turned in their membership to anyone who was convenient. It seems kind of sad to me, but I was starting to think that maybe I was crazy for thinking so. I mean, whatever floats your boat, I'm not one to judge, but I tend to think that sex without love would be kind of depressing in the end, and if you've already waited 20-some years for the right time, why not wait a little longer instead of just giving up to get it out of the way? I don't know.