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Originally posted by James
IF you did, then you were still brave, but he has a valid reason to be hurt and confused. Why? Because it wouldbe like a second break-up.
The first break-up was from going steady. The second break-up was from "dating", which is what friends with benefits really are.
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Yes, Alex and I did hookup once after we broke up, which is why I'm sure he thought that asking me to continue was ok. But after thinking about it, and regretting it, that's when I came to the conclusion that it wasn't right. I don't think he has a right to be hurt, but maybe confused. He hurt me when he broke up with me (remember, James, I told you that I never even got a good reason). He's probably confused because he wants to be with me just for the benefits, but I don't think he has a right to be hurt, considering he hurt me initially and just wanted me around for sex.
I saw Alex today on campus and waved hi to him. He looked me directly in the face (i was seriously 5 feet away), but didn't say hi back. It was kind of rude, but whatever.
And yes, twinstars, I FEEL SO MUCH BETTER ABOUT MYSELF!!!!!!!