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I've got two different perspectives on this...
Why don't girls ever ask guys out on dates...The times a girl asked me out in HS and once last year (as well as a couple of formals) were the best dates I've ever been on, and even though some of the girls who asked me I wasn't necessarily interested in, I still said yes. That was mainly due to shock of being asked.
Second would you girls still hold the same levels of rejection as always? If it was one of those things that made a girl jump and scream "absolutely" guys would do it. But when I have to ask sometimes three and four different girls to a formal (even when I say it's just for fun) it just seems to me that why bother with trying to get a date.
As for other reasons: $$$ is a big one. I could either take a girl out to dinner and a movie for $30, or I can invite her to a party where I pay $5. If both were to have the same end result (either physical hook up, or nothing at all) what's the point?
What if I can create a relationship out of just taking her to parties...where's the draw in dating before that?
basically I'd say that the reason is all girls' fault. Make it worthwhile for us to do it and we will, b/c guys will do what it takes to please girls, something most girls don't seem to ever realize.
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