Skee-wee my soror! Well, you're tied up because it sounds like you're caught up in a battle of wills --- yours against God's.
First, you know that our God is a jealous God, and perhaps you are feeling that He does not want you in such a close relationship because He wants to make sure that you are not compromising your relationship with Him. He wants to be first, and He wants his commandments to be first. From your post, it sounds like your fiance is in Christ, but whereas he may be a babe in Christ, you may be more spiritually advanced. So, the things that you can see with your "spritual eye" as not being ok, don't back down from that. Gently explain to him why certain things are not ok (using scripture). Keep your faith in God first, continue to nurture your relationship with Christ first, and He will bless your relationship with others.
Continue to pray, Soror, "thy will be done..."
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>>>"Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all."
Charm is deceptive and beauty is fleeting, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised... Proverbs 31:29-30
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