Amy is right. The total number doesn't matter.
Although . . . the total number of friends of mine she may have been with might be a factor lol. It would kind of suck if all your friends knew all her kinky habits and were like:
Well did she do "this" yet? lol.
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Originally posted by amycat412
IMO, and I think valkyrie will agree-- # does not matter. Whether or not they've been tested and are clean matters--and that's the same whether they've slept with 1 person or 35.
What's in the past is in the past. I would not want to be persecuted by someone in the present for something I did long before I met them--since peoplegrow and change and mature and we were not there and cannnot know the circumstances in their lives at a time when they may have been more promiscuous.
What matters to me is that the present relationship is 100% monogomaus.
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