Thread: pref night?
View Single Post
  #4  
Old 04-13-2003, 12:02 PM
33girl 33girl is offline
Moderator
 
Join Date: Sep 2000
Location: Hotel Oceanview
Posts: 34,519
Don't pair up the shyer/more reserved rushees with the sisters who are overly exuberant or will cry buckets - you might frighten them. Unless they are already friends, of course.

Try not to seem too anxious. Again, it will scare rushees off.

If you have a ceremony, make sure it is something that actually means something to the sisters - not just something you got from the chapter consultant that worked for her chapter. Something like this should not only say this is what XYZ is about, but this is what THIS chapter is about. (If you have a written ritual that you have to use, of course, scratch this last comment.)
__________________
It is all 33girl's fault. ~DrPhil
Reply With Quote