I have to tell you Sexy Mocha that I have always found True Love when I wasn't looking. When You are just being yourself and enjoying yourself no matter what you are doing or where you are (as Paul said "I have learned that in whatever state I am in to be content") then and only then will it happen. I didn't meant to get religious here but I find the Word very inspiring. I am older and I know that when you are just busy being YOU and taking care of YOU then it will happen. I spent 4 years without a real relationship and then it happened. When "it" happened I still wasn't sure until one day I noticed he was doing things for me that let me know:
1) He came to cut my grass and his lawn mower broke. He cut my whole yard with just his weed wacker. (You will have to see my yard to appreciate this). Neighbors were walking by and joking to him "You the man!!"
2) I came home from work one day totally exhausted and sat in one spot for a whole hour saying nothing and he fixed dinner for me and my children.
3) He fixed everything around the house that was broken and even some things that weren't and constantly looking for something else to do.
I could go on but like I said -- just don't go looking. TAKE CARE OF YOU!!
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BE POSITIVE!!!
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