I have heard a lot of those things to...usually mearing in jest...but still, I hear that paying for your friends thing alot. However...you pay to be in an organization, as you do any organization you want to join. Plus, although you pay...doesn't mean they are all your friends...you will find the best of friends in your sorority and you will find that you hang out with some people more than others...however, you didn't purchase these people.
As for the drunken thing...who cares what other people say. You should have fun and do whatever you want. My sorority has a imagine of being lushes, however, I don't drink...and for a while, I was the only one in the sorority that didn't drink. I loved every minute of it. Take things how you want to...but don't take them to heart. Have your fun and disregard what other people say
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